My husband and I have 3 boys. Our first son spent his first 3 years at home with us. We both worked full time, but we alternated shifts. I worked during the day and my husband worked at night. By year 3 my husband made a career change and we sent our son to day care. He was so upset his first day. I felt like I betrayed him. After a while he started to like it. Then he loved it. I want to know if any of you are experiencing or have experienced separation anxiety?