My daughter is 25 mos. and I am expecting #2 anyday. We have a family bed but, she will not go to bed without me, and will not fall asleep just anywhere...only in bed. When in bed it takes her upto 2 hrs to finally go to sleep, where I can sneak out, if I need to. While she is trying to go to sleep I lay there thinking of the million and one things I could be doing. Also, wondering what is going to happen when #2 arrives. I can't be spending 2 hrs. in bed if the baby needs me. My hubby is a chef and is rarely home at bed time, therefore it is just me. I know some nights we will all just be able to go to bed together, but what about those other nights? Any suggestions?