Briefly describe your family's sleeping arrangements - I'm curious. Our kids are 8 and 11 and have their own bedroom right next to ours which they share. We co-slept exclusviely though toddlerhood and then transitioned to their own beds. There have been many variations in sleeping arrangements over the years, but for the most part right now our 11 year old goes to sleep in her own bed and stays there the entire night. Occasionally(once every week or so) she migrates to our bed midway through the night. Our 8 year old goes to sleep in her own bed with me(I get up once she is sleeping) and often(most nights) migrates to our bed midway through the night. On weekends we often all sleep together, usually falling asleep after watching a movie.