Thanks all, for your support about day care. My DS is actually having a fine time, and I'm starting to feel more comfrtable. The one difficulty we've been running into is his napping there. They can't get him to sleep in the crib - just the swing. I'm not surprised, b/c he's never taken a nap in a crib, either in my or DH's arms, or our swing, or the car seat on long drives. He usually sleeps in the crib for a few hours at night, and then moves into our bed. So, does anyone have any suggestions for getting a co-sleeping babe to sleep on his own at day care?