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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>inky leeuhhh</strong> <a href="/community/forum/thread/1281787/small-home-organization-thread#post_16075930"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style="border-bottom:0px solid;border-left:0px solid;border-top:0px solid;border-right:0px solid;"></a><br><br><p>ill be watching this thread, too! we are a family of 4 living in a 2 bedroom 850ish sq ft apartment. right now its a mess! i'm quitting work in feb to stay home with the kids, and i'm hoping to trash tons of things and re organize. this place is SO cluttered. and yeah- the stuffed animals have fully taken over this house. they are everywhere, and that's after i went through them to get rid of many. we also have random papers, diapers, and clothes taking over. i am thinking some wall shelving could really help with some of this mess! edited to ask how many bedrooms the op's home is? i would really love a 3rd child, but have never really considered making it work in our 2 bedroom (although we made 2 children in a 1 bedroom work for quite a while). right now i am thinking we will have to find a bigger place if we were to ever have another baby, and i'm so tired of moving!</p>
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Hi Leah, I have 3 children, ages 2(3 in a month), 5(6 in a mont) and 10. I'm a single mom. We have 2 bedrooms only and that's all we've ever had. I wanted a 3 bedroom since the 10 year old is getting older and needs her own space but financially it's impossible unless I want to move us to a very questionable neighborhood. This neighborhood is fine, no broken glass on the street and cars broken into all the time like our last neighborhood so I'm happy!

So financially we've got to make 2 bedrooms work. We have a set of bunk beds and a twin bed and very very few toys. I could probably count the toys on two hands and a foot if you count books as a set and plastic figurines as a set. And that's being generous. We have less toys for 3 than most of their friends have as one.

But they are happy kids who feel blessed so I think that's all that matters. I do try to set aside areas of the house for them to retreat to when they are on each other's nerves, which is why the basement is a big deal for us. I'm going to put a carpet down and maybe some bean bags and a little tv and dvd player if I can do it on the cheap so that my oldest can get away from her sisters when she has friends over. We also have a lovely backyard with a tree swing coming and a big trampoline and a sand box and bikes and two little friends right next door in our duplex. But to make one bedroom for 3 work, we have two rules. Number one, you may NOT let your junk pile up and overflow everywhere. You must maintain a neat and orderly room because it's unfair to ask others to live in your mess. Contain your mess to your headboard because that's YOUR area. Number two, you may NOT get on anyone else's bed but your own. Your bed is your special safe space for yourself or your toys. If you get on anyone else's bed other than mom's, that's an immediate timeout. That's a serious offense in our house. They live in 850sq ft. and they all play and sleep in one room, there have to be boundaries. Having a designated safe space where no one can touch you or bug you or a safe space to put down a toy while you go potty and know itwon't be touched is a necessity and it's seeming to be working well. That's been the rule since the almost 3 year old was born and I LOVE that rule.<br>
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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>darien</strong> <a href="/community/forum/thread/1281787/small-home-organization-thread#post_16075989"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style="border-bottom:0px solid;border-left:0px solid;border-top:0px solid;border-right:0px solid;"></a><br><br><p>I live in a 580 sq. foot apartment with my 2 sons. Fortunately, none of us are claustrophobic. <span><img alt="winky.gif" src="http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/winky.gif" style="width:15px;height:15px;"></span> I don't have organizational tips that are new, but I'll share a few coping ideas. </p>
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<p>I did a massive decluttering before we moved in, of course. I donated a ton of books, games, puzzles, and a doll collection to my dc's school. Now my kids can still use them, and so can their classmates. </p>
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<p>We spend a lot of time outside. We arrange to visit friends or have playmates over, to change things up. Having less toys or space to play isn't such a bother when you've got a friend to play with.</p>
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<p>I make sure (usually!) to stay on top of cleaning and decluttering, to make the most of our space.</p>
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<p>Cool thread! I'm looking forward to getting some good ideas. </p>
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<p>You are my hero! That's awesome. I think that staying on top of cleaniang and decluttering and not letting it rule your life is a hard line to walk. Clutter and things out of place are a bigger deal in a small space than a bigger one but you also don't want to let it take over and make you crazy. <br>
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