my cousin just had her third baby a few weeks ago. she tried to bf the first and had problems so did formula...with baby #2 she bf till she was 6 or 8 months old, and she was not really happy that it went on that long, so now she has baby #3....she was at a family party that we were not able to attend last weekend and my mother must have asked if she were nursing and she and her husband started in on how yes, she was, but the baby would be weaned at 6 weeks because that is when all the health benefits stop! now, my mother started to ask about what if the baby still wants it etc....and i am not sure what they said....i am still nursing my 3 year old ds and plan to tandem when our daughter arrives in feb. and am a HUGE bf advocate and i just cant seem to let it go that they have this in their heads and were proclaiming it to my mom....i will be seeing them soon at another family party and i was wondering, if it were you, would you say anything, and what on earth would you say???