OK we don't have an official diagnosis yet but I post about this here. My dss has many symptoms of aspergersand we finally took him back to his ped agian after no luck with hoping that other professionals would notice them. His counsoler said ADHD and gets upset when we tell her that we see more than that. So anyway, we took him for a physical at the ped with a big list of symptoms that we have been telling the counsoler and he refered us to a nuroligest to continue investigating if it could be aspergers. When we told dss' bio-mom thismorning she rolled her eyes. I wonder why she is so upset because the other option that people have given us is that he was never taught as a baby how to socialize, which would mean she diddn't interact with him and therefore it would be her fault. I would much rather have it be something I diddn't do by being a bad mother.