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I have a little girl, and I don't know how many times people have said to me, "so you're hoping for a boy next, right?" It's really bugging me. We are not going to find out the gender until he/she is born. So, does that mean people think we won't be happy if the babe is born and it's a girl? Of course we'll be happy. And, to be perfectly honest, I really don't care if we have a boy or a girl. Last time, I kind of wanted a girl first, but I truly would have been happy either way. It's just really bugging me that people always assume that you want one of each gender and that we are only having two babies. They also say, "well, at least you're getting all the diapers out of the way at the same time." We are going to have quite a few babies, and if they turn out to be all girls, I will be a very happy mama of girls. I know people who prefer to have children all of the same gender. Just wondering if other people have had this experience.