And I knew it would be my mom. Just two days ago (not even 3 weeks after the m/c), after asking how I was doing and me giving my noncomittal "alright", I got the dreaded, "Well, it's time to put this behind you and move on to the future." She has a way of trying to take charge of my emotions anyway, but this one is making me want to scream. We only talk (on the phone or in person) when dd is around, so I didn't want to get inot it with her, and besides she took me off guard since I wasn't even saying anything. It's like she got what she wanted to say off her chest, she' over it, so I should be too so that she doesn't have to worry about me or the situation anymore. I have thought about writing her a note explaining what I am going through and what I will continue to go through, but I remember trying this when I was younger and she chastized me for not having the courage to tell her to her face. So, just thinking out loud, maybe I will have to corner her on Father's Day and let her have it. It's she would want after all, right?