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I am soooo angry right now. I have worked my [email protected]@ off for months now getting us slowly out of debt. It has been very difficult and I have worked very very hard to make this happen. I took over the money from dh, at his request, and managed to pull us out of it. So tonight, I'm working on the money again...Plotting and planning and figuring out how to work the bills, debt, etc. The last piece I need is to know what our credit card balance is...I ask how to logon to get the info. Dh asks me not to because he bought my birthday present. Fine, can you look then...well he can't because it's down or something. This is not the big deal. The big deal is he is being a major ass because I interrupted his reading to do this. I'M GETTING US OUT OF DEBT YOU FREAKIN' IDIOT. Work with me here. This is after I've sat here for thirty minutes working it all out and balancing the books, etc.<br><br>
I am so pissed at him right now.
 

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you sound like you don't feel appreciated.<br>
you should be appreciated for you efforts!<br><br>
i can relate. so often nowadays, i feel like dh and i are on opposite sides of the earth. that would explain why we seem to yell so much!<br><br>
i think men and women have very different senses of time and timing.<br><br>
my guy and i need more inimate time together with some decent timing. but that is not easy and hasn't been since our dd was born two years ago.<br><br>
i know things could be alot worst, "i just want a little sugar in my bowl".<br><br>
ma-t
 

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Well he came and apologized very nicely. He has been very appreciative...that's why tonight surprised me and upset me so much.<br><br>
Ma-t <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> and thanks
 
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