I would never ask anyone else this in the world, but I feel safe here. After BD'ing a blob of stuff falls out when I use the restroom. It doesn't happen if we used a condom. I was never concerned before, but now I'm thinking if it is spermies, I'd rather them be swimming up inside and not around in a toliet during these TTC moments. Do I need to lay in bed for longer? Is it something else? Do the sperm escape from this blob and are already on their journey before I use the restroom. I try to wait 20-30 minutes before getting up after BD'ing. I know this sounds like a crazy question, but I'm wondering.