My mother and my MIL have mentioned that I have spoiled my baby. They say this because she is rarely content to sit on her own, or play on her own. She also fights her sleep, and she displays anger when there is something going on that she doesn't enjoy -- ex. changing clothes, getting in the carseat. She crys loud and hard -- it's a mad cry. I've been feeling like these things are just her temperment. We come from a long line of strong willed people. Now, I'm second guessing. Am I causing these things by being by her side and practicng AP. Should I leave her to play alone more often to get her used to this? Or, is she just having seperation anxiety? Should I listen to my mothers?