People used to dump bags of used clothing on my front porch. The neighborhood knew my (now ex) husband and I were low income, and I guess they were only trying to help, but the one thing we didn't need was children's clothing (my family owns a few stores that sell childrens clothes)... and we said so on several occasions like "thankyou, but we don't actually need anymore hand-me-downs." People started leaving things anonymously on our porch instead of even asking if we needed or wanted any of it. The worst part of it was that MOST of the clothing was badly stained, enough that if I had found it in a thrift shop, I wouldn't have bought it no matter how cheap. I think people were using our financial situation as an excuse to not bother driving all the way to the donation place.
If it's so badly stained that you wouldn't buy it from a thrift store for your own kid, then don't donate it. Turn it into a cleaning rag or something.
If it's so badly stained that you wouldn't buy it from a thrift store for your own kid, then don't donate it. Turn it into a cleaning rag or something.