A&A said:So I guess if I give them the letter and they think that I'm too pushy and that strains things, then that won't really matter, because things will be strained anyway if they circ. So what do I have to lose?>>><br><br>
This is what I thought too.I would tell your dh though.Best wishes.At least you will be able to tell your nephew you did everything possible to save him,and hopefully he will be able to say," TG my parents listened to you and did not mutilate you!"<br>
You could send the regret circ thread,ofcourse leave out the part telling where those parents in the OP circed anyway.