I guess I should start out by asking what do you do with your kids during the day?? My son is 21mo. He really just does whatever his wants all day. We have breakfast he plays till lunch then he has nap and then back up to play again....... So it's hard when we visit church, family ect. he's all over the place (cause that's what he's use to) Is this routine ok? Or should I be doing more of a scheduled routine? Keep in mind this is a boy who NEVER sits down for more than 10 secondsIf I should be doing a more structured thing, I am so open to suggestions!! I've asked some friends & family & they say he's still young and I shouldn't worry about it to just let him be. So then I feel like maybe I expect too much from him? First time Mom can you tell????