Well, I'll make the suggestion that you don't necessarily do either. When I'm away from my DS, he just drinks water from a sippy. When I get back he's always very ready to nurse, but he's usually happy while I'm gone. I don't know the specific hours you work but based on "midnights" I guessing you're there to nurse him to sleep and he's only missing the morning feeding. In that case, your DH could give him a sippy/bottle when he wakes and then he could nurse as soon as you got home. HTH