i have a 5 day old and a 22 month old and am attempting tandem nursing. dd1 (22m) seems to want to bf more since she sees dd2 doing it which is fine with me. but i am having difficulty latching dd2 because my breasts are SOOOO incredibly full and tight. and when i wake in the morning it is ridiculous. i don't know if having a 5 day old that sleeps so well is a blessing or a curse. with dd1 sometimes i would pump a litle to make it easier for her to nurse and since i was returning to work part time it was a good way to build a stash. but now i'm not returning to work so i don't really need a big stash and i'm afraid pumping a little for comfort and an easier latch is just going to contribute more to my discomfort and latch issues. dd2 nurses great when she can latch on easily. i know tandeming is hard at first and gets easier but i'm just not sure how to get thru this time... any help or sugggestions...even just encouragement is WELCOME!!thanks in advance Mamas!