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Hi,<br>
My dh is leaving me and as it all has happened pretty fast I'm still a bit overwhelmed.I may need to get on TANF to help out until I can find a job and get on my feet.Now I have been on food stamps and medicaid before and they haven't given me a problem.(Haven't even asked.)But in all of those papers that you have to fill out I have seen it say that any child covered under TANF under the age of 7 had to be vaxed.Is this going to cause me a problem?I have read some past post and as faras I could tell as long as I have my religious ex.form they can't do anything?<br>
I'm just really worried about this.Also dh has mentioned trying to take the three boys and I don't want anything to happen to help him out in that.By the way I'm in GA.<br>
Thank you,<br>
Sonya
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> I don't know the answer to your question but just wanted to say I'm sorry you are going through this!
 

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If your DH signed the exemption it shouldn't be an issue in your divorce. If he didn't you may want to call up a family law attorney for a free consult and hear what they have to say. My guess is since the exemption is religious in nature it shouldn't be an issue in the divorce.<br><br>
Is your DH pro-vax? Do you think it will be an issue?<br><br>
No idea about the TANF situation, I assume they can't do anything because of the religious exemption because of that pesky 1st amendment. Hopefully a GA parent will chime in with more info.<br><br>
Sorry you're going through this. Hope and strength to you and your family.
 

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He is pro-vax.He just hasn't given me much trouble right now because he just doesn't want the bother,but if he decided he wants the boys it may come up.Also he wants to circ.them and lst time he threatened to leave me he said that he was going to take the boys and have them circ.anyway.So that is two things that I have to worry about.He won't read any of the info.that I have found or even listen to me when I say that there are risk. He just wants to listen what the "experts"say and I don't know anything I'm just their mom.<br>
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Just echoing on what celestial said, I was thinking the same thing.<br><br><br>
I hope more info comes in on the TANF situation.<br><br>
hang in there... I think you'll be okay with the vax situation but more to come...<br><br>
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Thank you,<br>
I have been on the circ.board and have information on what to do if he tries anything and the number of a lawyer to call around here.I was just worried that in the courts the vax.issue might carry more weight.And since one parent is against it and one for.Of course since he has never pushed the issue before maybe a judge would look at that?And the fact that I'm the one that takes care of the kids and have made the decisions concerning them.It just seems like there is a lot to cover and protect myseld and the children with.<br>
Thank you again for all the support.<br>
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...I'm sorry to hear of your situation. I'm continually amazed by the number of reports here on this forum of DHs completely on board with the VAX holocaust. I'm definitely beginning to think they aren't even examining the issue, just using it as a weapon in the eternal war between the sexes that breaks out in any marriage.<br><br>
If they only knew to pick something else and leave their children out of it.<br><br>
I still dare any individual to read Jamie Murphy's "What Every Parent Should Know About Childhood Immunization" and...<br><br>
...still vaccinate their child. Especially those with a medical training. There is so much science in the book.<br><br>
And if these threads were better organized I could leave this one alone, but when in doubt I write it out!<br><br><br>
Don't just Procreate, Disseminate!<br><br><br>
Ray
 
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