I wouldn't allow it based on your thought #1. If you wouldn't allow it with a BF why a GF? To me they should be treated equally. Hope someone else has other suggestions that may help.
Originally Posted by TexasTomboy
Don't create any barriers. I know me and my partner (of nine years) started dating, and having sex, when I was fourteen. And our parents tried to say: "No sleep overs." So, we just went around them. And then that made them mad and they restricted us more. So, we just lied and snuck around more. I ended up leaving home at sixteen and we went to college together.
But my parents and I have never trusted each other since. We still haven't mended the divide and it's been nearly ten years.
Better they be screwing at home, then you have no idea where they are. Because me and my girlfriend did all sorts of crazy dumb stuff to try and be together. Because we were teenagers and basically just screwed like crazed weasles.