Ok i've never nursed a "toddler", I'll admit i use to think it was "weird" and "gross", but now i see how great it can be. My first goal for nursing dd was 1 year, well i'm about 3 months away from that point and i have been asked that questions many times when do you plan to wean, and i find my self saying well the WHO says you should bf till atleast 2 and that ends the discusion, but i know CLW can be great but i don't know if i can do it. I really need to get to some LLL meetings and surround my self with it being the "norm" to nurse a toddler, b/c of the looks i'm already getting and allison is only 9 months but look about 1 year or more big girl! But i just need some support and need to be told that i can do it, dd is more the likly my last baby <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"> which really breaks my heart!!! So i want what's best for her and I!!!!