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I am not at all looking forward to telling my family that I'm pregnant again. Most of them are going to be snarky or straight up jerks about it.
Married or not, trying or oops, it doesn't matter to them. My sister has been married for about a decade and has planned each of her childre. Our *wonderful family* is costantly judging her for her big family and telling her she "should get that fixed".
I will be 40 when this one is born. I am unmarried and this was an oops after scheduling an appointment for a tubal.
I'm quite certain after telling the family, I will not care to speak to any of them aside from the previously mentioned sister.
But I can't not tell them. Can I?
How can I tell them without having to deal with the stress of their negative reactions?
Married or not, trying or oops, it doesn't matter to them. My sister has been married for about a decade and has planned each of her childre. Our *wonderful family* is costantly judging her for her big family and telling her she "should get that fixed".
I will be 40 when this one is born. I am unmarried and this was an oops after scheduling an appointment for a tubal.
I'm quite certain after telling the family, I will not care to speak to any of them aside from the previously mentioned sister.
But I can't not tell them. Can I?
How can I tell them without having to deal with the stress of their negative reactions?