<p>So I had a visit with an OB yesterday, I want to have some CYA visits and also records for proof of pregnancy, planning on ending care around 20 weeks. The doctor was nicey nice but ohmygoodnplenty. No Dr. Atthenearestkaiserfacility you can not tell me how much to gain, where I will birth, and what risks are appropriate for me. But thanks for your concern! If my body needs to gain 50lbs then so be it, I will birth at home, and there is nothing for me that make the hospital safer. Have a nice day. There was a lot of head nodding and smiling on part!</p>