We intereviewed a new doc for our DS the other day and during that process indicated that we are trying for baby #2 with a known donor. Anyway she asked if we were doing inseminations or if I was having sex with him!
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I was initially stunned and just said we were doing insems. I then ran into her in the hall and tactfully said that no lesbians that I know have had sex with the donor to get pregnant. I then added before that some lesbians have become mom's through normal straight sex, but most lesbians in a committed relationship with another woman wouldn't actually have sex to get preggers.
She was quite receptive to the correction, but sheesh...what kind of question is that?

I was initially stunned and just said we were doing insems. I then ran into her in the hall and tactfully said that no lesbians that I know have had sex with the donor to get pregnant. I then added before that some lesbians have become mom's through normal straight sex, but most lesbians in a committed relationship with another woman wouldn't actually have sex to get preggers.
She was quite receptive to the correction, but sheesh...what kind of question is that?