o.k., i know this has been asked before, but i don't have the time for a search, as i am losing my mind! my 22 mo. old has been pushing everyone--- especially older brother, 4yrs., for the past several weeks. they already have a tough relationship despite all my efforts. i am all out of ideas and now it's just damage control. anyway, now ds2 has started biting ds1 and i don't know how to handle it in a loving way. i am really pissed at this point even though i know it's just developmental. is there a way of teaching ds2 without adding to the drama? how can i cope with my own angry feelings effectively? how much anger is it appropriate to show these kids. i mean, i want to be authentic but not hurtful. ugh! when toddlers aren't the cutest creatures in the world they are sooooooooo frustrating!!!!!!