Some of you may remember my thread a while back about my future MIL cutting me out of a picture that was my family (me, my DP and my daughters) right after they were born. Well, my DP finally said something to her about it and how "we" wanted her to take it down (who knows if he really said both of us wanted it down, he is so afraid of hurting her feelings...). I guess she did take it down, but reluctulantly. His father and her confronted me about it and couldn't understand why I wanted it down. It turns out his dad didnt even know I was in it to begin with, and his mother felt like we were "attacking" her and trying to make her look like the bad person. I think she tried to turn it around on me by saying "I am hurt that you would think I meant something by that...". I ended up in tears and feeling like an idiot.
Well it hit the roof again today. Somehow it got brought back up between DP and I and we were argueing over it again. He said that when he asked his mom to take it down she was actually really P*#sed over it and wasn't happy. He agrees with her. He things I was making something of nothing over it. He won't even let me talk, or try to see things my way, he thinks I am just looking into things too much and making a big deal over nothing. I feel like the only "right" way in his eyes is his mom's way and I will never be right about anything. I am so frustrated and hurt right now.
I am so hurt right now, I had to vent. Sorry.
Well it hit the roof again today. Somehow it got brought back up between DP and I and we were argueing over it again. He said that when he asked his mom to take it down she was actually really P*#sed over it and wasn't happy. He agrees with her. He things I was making something of nothing over it. He won't even let me talk, or try to see things my way, he thinks I am just looking into things too much and making a big deal over nothing. I feel like the only "right" way in his eyes is his mom's way and I will never be right about anything. I am so frustrated and hurt right now.
I am so hurt right now, I had to vent. Sorry.