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Ah....here we go! Todya I TRIED to declutter three bags at the Salvation Army. I live in a big college town, and move-out and move-in is going on this weekend, so the Salvation Army donation site was overflowing, AND it started raining, so I decided to wait. But at least the stuff is in my van!<br><br>
Also have a fifth huge box for Ukrainian orphans in my van, waiting to go out.<br><br>
Filled a huge garbage bag with paper trash, and sorted through some extreme paper clutter in our livingroom. I'm working on our scary office--that's my worst room in our apartment--and I'm hoping to thin out more.<br><br>
BUT (there's ALWAYS a but...) I ordered a new dining set today (we have none) and I bought a cool 208 CD/DVD case. We're going to get rid of the actual cases the CDs and DVDs come in and keep them in sleeves. That's cut out a huge amount of clutter, methinks!<br><br>
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I finally got into the office/nursery. I decluttered about 10 pounds of extra/unneccesary papers. I THREW OUT (someone rescued it!) a whole file cabinet and boy does it add a huge amount of space to the room.<br><br>
Got rid of extra baby products (lotions/soaps/powder) along with some clothes for donation.<br><br>
Threw out some unneeded office supplies.<br><br>
I am starting college on Wednesday and I am oh so close to having this house clean and organized before I start.<br><br>
My motto was and still is "The key to clean it to throw away!"
 

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What is it about the office? Next weekend, my parents will watch our children on Sunday so that both dh and I can tacklethe office and clear it out in one day.<br><br>
I brought out:<br><br>
Two trash bags full of junk<br><br>
A bunch of paper for to be recycled, old magazines...<br><br>
some old lawn chairs<br><br>
I put some chairs out and they were gone an hour later.<br><br>
It's rainy, so we'll wait and put the dining room table out and our crappy kitchen table.<br><br>
Our street is a known area for people who need it to drive by and take furniture.<br><br>
I brought in:<br>
Shoe shelves and organized all our shoes by the door<br><br>
A new shower curtain and dh cleaned and decluttered our bathroom<br><br>
A shelf to put our stereo on in the kitchen<br><br>
More hangers for our clothes<br><br>
We still have a long way to go, but the only new things that we are allowing into the house are things to organize our lives and a bit of new maternity clothes for me.
 

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Oh I forgot to add:<br><br>
Gone are 3 cans of paint I will never use <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngtongue.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Stick Out Tongue"><br><br>
I took pictures of my old Commodore 64 to sell in my neighborhood or on ebay if there are no local takers.<br><br>
ANDDDDDD I cleaned and organized the living room closet which was a an absulute mess.<br><br>
Going back to cleaning now!<br><br>
EDITED TO ADD:<br>
3 books<br><br>
And I de-cluttered my email box. I was using almost 90% of it's capacity now I am down to 54%. Ohh hooray - I dont know why I never get around to deleting those messages!
 

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i saw your august thread and then this one and I would like to make a pitch for those who are interested, to take a look at the feng shui threads in spirituality...<br><br>
it is right in alignment with so much people have shared about clutter and decluttering..<br><br><br>
here's a link<br><br><a href="http://mothering.com/discussions/showthread.php?s=&threadid=74808" target="_blank">http://mothering.com/discussions/sho...threadid=74808</a><br><br>
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Today I sent off all the stuff in my van! Whoo hoo! Big load off my mind.<br><br>
Tomorrow I "declutter" my 4 yo--he starts preschool. Sniff, sniff--I'll miss him, but...he needs it and so do I. It'll be great for him to meet new friends and for me to get more alone time with my 17 mo and to work on the house. My 4 yo is the wild child and my 17 mo is mellow and naps, sometimes, in the morning, so I might get stuff done!
 

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Wow. Am inspired ...<br><br>
Sunday-past went through the kids' drawers, was painfully honest about what clothing I will or will not put on them, and bagged up the rest. We get huge amounts of hand-me-downs, so I always feel weird not putting what we get right into the drawers ... but am now handing them off to a neice who just had a baby ... and the rest goes to someplace useful, just not here ... <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"><br><br>
Have a closet full of clothes that haven't fit me since 50 lbs ago <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/yikes.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="EEK!"> (see Weight Loss thread for the sad details) but that I insist will fit me again someday (yeah, right) ... and will begin my painfully honest clear-out of my own closet&drawers this Sunday ...<br><br>
Thanks for the inspiration, mamas ... <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/thumb.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="thumbs up">
 

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I started a declutter the apt campaign back this spring, and did well, but sort of grew over the past few months when I swear I wasn't looking. Stuff also has miraculous ways of finding it's way inside our house. The ratio of out:in is way out of wack right now.<br><br>
Plus I figure if i start now - I wont have much to move next year when we move. Right now I have already compiled a growing list on the TP to see if it will go there first. I dont' feel like dealing with eBay (unless I get into dh's books for money) as I figured out last night I spent nearly 50$ in eBay fees this year.<br><br>
Anyways, one big accomplishment was going through the clutter on the kitchen counter. It literally is the junk counter - with two junk drawers underneath it - home to all things that don't have a home. I clear it all out - and eventually it's a paper and crap jungle. I threw out old copies of bills and envelopes that I had a "current" copy of - which whittled about 100 envelopes down to a nessasary four or five. I put all pens back in the pen jar, and weeded out garbage. I still have to go through dh's paystubs (I need them to apply for assist. this week) but I'm going to toss all but the current ones we need, at least they are all in one spot. For now, the counter itself looks tons better.<br><br>
I have a multitude of goals about the house, but I'm going to take it one thing at a time so I don't get overwhelmed. On the list includes my dresser, the bookshelf, my closet, the knickknack shelf in the living room, top of the microwave, top of the stereo and fridge, tops of the kitchen cupboards, and weeding through the boys' toys (and clothing) - and ultimately, getting rid of what I dont' love enough to drag with me 800 miles away. I'm a world class packrat, but I've improved greatly over the past few years, and my eye is much more critical of my space, and my soul is much more at ease wtih the space cleared out.<br><br>
Anyone have a suggestion for used VHS tapes? I"m giving a few more days at the TP, but don't feel like taking the time (money) to eBay; we don't have a vcr anymore so they are <i>really</i> hogging up valueable shelfspace!
 

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Welcome aboard JesseMomme. You may want to consider giving your video tapes to a shelter. You can get a tax deduction too - so you may not earn money - but at least you save it. For example here in the city I gave a whole bunch of stuff to the Convenant House for homeless and runaway teens. They have a new mohters group that they distribute too. Hope that helps and good luck!
 

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Goodcents, that is a wonderful suggestion! It didn't even cross my mind -thank you. I think this will definately be what we wind up doing with a lot of the stuff I get rid of (but of course is still useable)
 

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I TACKLED THE OFFICE! Or it tackled me LOL! I reorganized the closet to make space, put loads of things in the closet--neatly, in boxes--and the office is now 3/4 clean. Pictures we haven't hung are still propped against the wall, but there's a lovely reading/music nook with a rocking chair, end table, and boom box. It's so peaceful!<br><br>
I think the dust set off allergies, which weakened me to a cold, though--or something like that. Ever since Sunday I've been miserable!<br><br>
We're getting rid of a working lamp, some kid equipment, and out the door go three MORE boxes to the Ukrainian orphanage effort. Whoo hoo!<br><br>
No more pounds lost, though. I am exercising a lot, so it might just be my body developing muscle. I once lifted weights for a month and gained 5 lbs, but stuck to it. The next month I lost 9 lbs, so it takes time to catch up. But that's another thread...<br><br>
I AM actually fitting into a few select pieces of clothes I hung onto. Size 12--I fit into one pair of shorts that are size TWELVE! (I was a 16 four months ago). But I'm glad I only hung onto 6 pieces--as I lose weight, I get to reward myself with new clothes!<br><br>
Off to declutter the van!<br><br>
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Three <b>huge</b> hefty bags of boys and girls clothing are <i>gone</i>. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/banana.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="banana"> - actually it was more, but I compressed it into three bags LOL. While they are not on their way to the SA - I did one better, they are going to SIL who has three boys (older than mine) and one on the way. Maybe this time she'll have a girl and get to use all the infant girls clothing that was given to me before I had Liam. I have tons of newborn clothing to go through yet and I'll send those to her too, and I still have a box of boys winter clothes, hopefully stuff too big for Kieran yet, her 10 yo can fit into. I'm not. I'm really not sure I have clothing that big tho and was told she needed that size the most, keeping fingers crossed.<br><br>
Anyways slightly <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/oops.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="oops">T - I talked to Dh about sonating stuff for a tax deduction next year and he said it wouldn't work for us beecause we dont' make enough to itemize? (we qualify for full tax refunds each year) How is this so?<br><br>
I also dragged out my own winter clothes and tried everything on before relegating to piles (sell, donate, keep) and so much fit!! WOohoo! The winter before preg I swear one nifty pair of pants was too small but now they fit great. I also spent longer than I should wondering whether to keep this or that shirt/sweater...I have to do it again, because I wavereed and lily livered over a lot of it, when what I really wanted to do was get it down what will fit in my side of the dresser. I did better with the jeans - they were all nice pairs my mother gave to me when she lost some wieght, but some are too long, some are too big (<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/banana.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="banana">) but a few fit... and I just can't stand classic fit...so I debate - I have perfectly good jeans that will get me through the winter, I should keep them: I'll avoid wearing them at all costs because I dont' like classic fit, and so through my debate the demon behind my need to be a packrat shown through - I feel guilty/ungrateful/snobby for not wanting things that are graciously given to me!! So, in most cases, I grumblingly hang onto them for years, and they don't see the light of day. And the sad reality in this case is that my mother probably has forgotten all about half the jeans she's given to me, and she's a big fan of decluttering in her own life (you should have seen her before she moved out of state! She took clothes and her piano, and her antique dresser set, that's it. I wound up with half of her stuff though I swear. I was doing pretty good until she moved <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/shake.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="shake">)<br><br>
Ok sorry to ramble....I just need support in facing this clutter demon of mine! Even worse than jeans, my grandmother gives me stuff all the time. It's top of the line stuff, but just not my "thing" kwim? It's usually stuff she gets from $$$ catalogues and then decides she doesnt' like or it doesnt' fit her right. I've quietly eBayed a lot of it <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/blush.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="blush">...but one dress she made (she's an expert seamstress) and she went on and on abut how proud she was of it. It's kinda cool and vintage looking, yet I've had it for 5 years and never found a place to wear it to...guilt guilt guilt. I also debate should I hang onto the dress I wore when Dh and I eloped. I'll never wear it again I'm sure, and it's probably out of style by now LOL. Theer's tons of clothing I have hung onto, simply out of memories -does anyone else deal with this? (not just wtih clothing of course)
 

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I'm a trading post regular and someone started a great thread this week - <a href="http://mothering.com/discussions/showthread.php?s=&threadid=85551" target="_blank">Free stuff for shipping.</a><br><br>
If you think something is just not quite sellable but someone just might want it, post it on that thread. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngbiggrin.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="orange big grin"> It's been a smashing success - so far I've offloaded a snugli, over 2 dozen diapers (with more to post later), and something else though now I can't remmeber what it is LOL. Thank goodness for paypal records!<br><br>
I also yesturday went through the winter clothes and asked myself why I would hang onto stuff way too big for Kieran for yet another year. So now a HUGE box is packed and ready to go to my SIL, she said her oldest (10) needed clothes, even though I think most of the stuff is going to wind up fitting her 6 yo - well anyways I have to get going and "declutter" all the laundry out of the hallway <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/rolleyes.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="rolleyes">:
 

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I had the nicest dream this morning before waking.<br><br>
I dreamed that I had gone through all the junk in my dungeon*<br>
and gotten rid of tons of stuff. I woke up and I felt so good! All that was left was some dust to vaccuum and a little pile of laundry to bring to the laundry room.<br><br>
It felt SO good and it helped me because I have been feeling hopeless about decluttering this room.<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/thumb.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="thumbs up"><br><br>
"Dungeon" is the Flylady's term for your worst, most cluttered room/basement etc. where you collect the most junk.<br><a href="http://www.flylady.net" target="_blank">http://www.flylady.net</a>
 

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Trying to declutter here also. The computer desk is a big paper/clutter gatherer and also the kitchen table. I have clothes that I save because I might wear them "one day". A big issue is my 12yo dd's bedroom. She has so many clothes and toys, etc. and no place to put them. She likes to save everything. I'm slowly going through it though. Gotta go. babe calls.
 

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Two more boxes gone to Ukraine, two-three huge bags of dipes off to my friend.<br><br>
2 small bags to Sal. Army.<br><br>
BUT we just bought 3 end tables!<br><br>
About to send off a few more boxes to Ukraine and get into the groove some more!
 

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The HUGE Tv box is officially gone, and some of the stuff I unloaded at the TP is packaged and ready to go tomorrow. Yay! I'm 1/10th the way there :LOL<br>
eta- oh yeah and I conquered the junk counter yet again and got it really good and cleared off this time. And every time I see something set on it, I move it. I'm getting a lil obsessive teehee, but I really like it when this certain counter is clear. My whole kitchen looks better.
 

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I just decluttered a box of old money records.<br><br>
Records from my first checking account in college, old teller machine slips from banks that no longer exist,<br><br>
even cancelled checks from when I used to sub to<br>
PARENTS magazine! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/duh.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="duh"><br>
WHAT WAS I THINKING!?!?!<br><br>
Ahhhhhhhhhhh.<br><br>
Out it goes!<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/banana.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="banana">
 

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VIDEOTAPES: we donate our old ones to our library if they are in good shape. If not, out they go.
 

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We are doign forced decluttering--listed some BIG items on ebay--dresser, tvs, filing cabinet. They MUST be cleaned out because someone's coming to get them next week LOL!<br><br>
We've done this before and it's a great way to force yourself to declutter.<br><br>
And off I go...
 
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