Boruch Hashem! I've kept very quiet on this issue becasue it is painful to my family. BliAyin Hara, pu pu pu nothing bad should happen, but,Please even if you don't make a will right away just at least write it in a letter and let a person you trust know where it is. I have been through the nightmare aftermath of what happens to the kids after an unexpected death-when the dead parent's verbal wishes and intentions were not honored in a very sad way(there was no letter or will).:
Originally Posted by tikva18
Back to the discussion about who would take your kids if ch'vsh... well, I spoke w/a friend about it and she said she'd take my kids ina minute. I can't describe how relieved I feel. Now we need to make a will.