I just had to tell my soon to be 13 year old and my soon to be 11 year old that we have no money for their birthday. So no gifts....No cake...no nothing. Hell we may not even have Christmas at this point...Life SUCKS. Things have never been like this... I mean sure with 5 kids it has been tight before but never did I think that I would have to tell my kids that they were not having their birthday let alone no Christmas. Man do I feel like a sucky parent.