The things I am about to tell you are true ,very real and also my life. This is over the course of the past 17 months. I am solely looking for sensible advice words of wisdom. I have been cruising around on this site for a while and everyone seems so kind and interested in helping people solve issues its inspirational to me. My issue is with the father ao my DD we live together and our DD is 9 weeks old today. When he and I met I was 22 he was 39. We had a casual relationship for a short time and then obviously a sexual one. I always insisted on using a condom and he told mee time after time he had a vasectomy. Heres where it gets interesting...He didnt really have a vasectomy and after knowing him for around 5-6 months and only skipping the condom one time I was pregnant. I always told him I wasnt ready for kids thats the reason for the condom and so on. So basically he admitted to me he didnt have a vasectomy but it took alot of pushing 2 months worth and insisting he se a doctor to correct it. I regret saying this but I am resentful because I truly wasnt ready for this and I was irresponsible the one time but I never expected to be lied to by someone I loved about something so life altering. My question is this will I ever get over it? Will I be able to trust him again and adjust to my new life as a mom? By the way she is gorgeous.The best part is he insists I stay at home with her and I love that I wouldnt have it any other way!