This is getting a little obnoxious

Ugh, I am getting a little tired of this - just venting. Period started on 2/3. It usually never last for more than 3 or 4 days or so. So after 3 days it stopped completely. Then on the 7th it started again, but not really - just barely (just enough to be annoying) all brown, cmish dischargy (sorry!), I think it's stopped now, but it was here the 7th, 8th and 9th. I'm always regular and never have any type of spotting or whatever you'd call this. The only thing I can think of is that we've been quite, um... active I guess you could say so maybe some cervix bumping or something has caused this?

Just that in itself wouldn't really bother me at all but I have this abdominal cramping/almost constant lower backache/heartburn and nausea thing going on too - that's really annoying.

All poas tests came out negative the day before af came and she did come normally so I have no reason to think I am pregnant (not for lack of trying and bd'ing like crazy last month !).

The other thing is that I'm expecting to be fertile in a few days so I'm frustrated and worried that this *extra* stuff will be messing with my fertile window.

I'm sure in the world of fertility this is not a big deal, but I'm turning 40 soon so every little change has me worried I may have missed my last chance!

Thanks for letting me vent!

Tracy