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when you are COMPLETELY and totally frustrated....not baby wise....but let's name them....sex, house, and dh wise.....well you clean...you clean your bathrooms top to bottom....carpets in the family room totally around your dh that can't get off the computer...kitchen counters, table and chairs.....vacuum the house even though you have a roomba that could have done it for you....your side of the bedroom because there is no way in HADES you would even think of cleaning more of dh's crap....I have been asking for over a week for some lovin....he laughs me off...I swear if I could attach cafeworld/farmville/farmtown to play across my chest he'd be there in jiffy.....<br><br>
So now my house is clean top to bottom again..and of course I cleaned alone as he went between the couch and desk today....*sigh*...<br><br>
I would just like a little bit of lovin over here....just a little...not because I want bean out because I NEED it....guess I'll go bake me some heavy on the chocolate brownies and go whine elsewhere now... <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol">
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> oh, mama, you deserve those brownies AND a back massage AND a foot rub...and whatever else you would like <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">I swear if I could attach cafeworld/farmville/farmtown to play across my chest he'd be there in jiffy.....<br></div>
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Oh Mama! How frustrating! What's his hang-up? Its hard for me to imagine a man who won't wildly attack a woman lightly hinting at considering being interested in making love. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/eyesroll.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="roll"> My poor DH. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/redface.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Embarrassment">
 

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Mama I am right there with you. My hubby has become very distant and I gave up asking for some lovin'. I figure he may just end up having to wait about 3 months in the end seeing as how it has already been about one month and then wait for recovery.
 

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DDCC ~ <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">
 

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thank you all<br><br>
I had a good hard cry tonight....he was fast asleep and oblivious....I just hate that there hasn't been any contact whatsoever other than a small peck goodbye when he's heading out to work....it's hard enough being pregnant it's even harder when you feel completely turned down and disgusting to your own dh...<br><br>
so tired of it and emotionally drained....
 

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Oh Mommabean, I just completely understand. I do. Big hugs to you. I'm in the same place. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="irked">
 

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Upon asking more in-depth, I was surprised how often the man is hesitant to make love because he feels very lost in the once-familiar terrain and can't be sure he's not going to hurt someone. It sucks to suddenly feel clumsy where you once were an expert.<br><br>
I have a whole different frustration ... Daddy and I have been like best friends all except that little bit of time when we conceived ... so now we've got this amazing friendship and partnership that we've worked really hard at, that is also platonic, and we're supporting each other in finding other people to marry ...<br><br>
And I just want to mess it up by being impulsive again! I'm due, everything hurts, it's what helps me progress into labor ... he's torn between wishing he could help (for medical reasons) and wanting to stay the course. I'm torn between respecting our friendship and "just once" ...
 
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