how do you transition to bed when your kid is tired and behaving badly? all my posts are about this sooo sorry! i don't want the bed to be like a punishment. he wont take a nap so i'm settling for quiet time but he never falls asleep. we were getting ready to go out to eat and his behavior sucked because he got up early. so i had him get in his bed and read some books but it was right after he threw a toy. i know he sees going to bed as a result of throwing the toy. i guess always stick the to the bedtime routine?