Anyone else get the chills when you here that common term? You know how people always ask what you are having. I always respond with: "Well, the doctor thinks it's a boy, but the ultrasound wasn't convincing to me." and "I don't care either way." Then they always come back with: "As long as it's healthy, right?" That just creeps me out because I will love my baby boy or girl, healthy or not--whatever "healthy" is supposed to mean. It seems like that thoughtless term insinuates that it its not OK if the baby isn't perfectly "normal." What do you think, does this bug you too?