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there was a little boy who pulled down his shorts & peed on a tree (his mommies explained he refuses to use the toilet :LOL)... then he turned around, whipped off his undies & began running around naked from the waist down ~ and he was intact!! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/yikes.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="EEK!"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/thumb.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="thumbs up"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngbiggrin.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="orange big grin">
 

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Last summer at the beach there was a boy around 3 or 4 who stood on top of the playground equipment and proceded to pull down his pants and pee down onto the sand below. :LOL He was also intact! Makes you wonder how clean the sand is at the playground or the beach. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/yikes.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="EEK!">
 

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That's great that he is intact,but peeing outside because he doesn't like toilets is not something I agree with. I don't think I would like ds doing that unless there were no toilets in the area.
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/eyesroll.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="roll"> that really wasn't the point, mattemma04.
 

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Two summers ago, I was at the beach, and it was starting to get late and all the mommies were changing their toddlers out of their swimsuits on the beach. There were 3 or 4 nudie boys running around, every single one of them was intact <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/thumb.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="thumbs up"><br><br>
I decided <i>that</i> was the beach for me :LOL
 

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Itlbokay, fifteen years ago my sister gave birth to her DS. This was in the U.K. I casualy asked her opinion on circ - so that I could jump in with info if she was in any way for it. She did not know what the word meant !!! How col is that ??
 

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yeah, over in the UK it's just not that big of a deal. unfortunately i think it should at least get *exposure* so that people can know about it, and work to stop it.
 

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My friends and I were down at the beach and our kids were out running around without any swimsuits on and it seemed that most of the boys were intact as far as I can tell or unless some were circumcised very loosely.
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">yeah, over in the UK it's just not that big of a deal. unfortunately i think it should at least get *exposure* so that people can know about it, and work to stop it.</div>
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I live in the UK (although I'm American), and whenever I mention the fact that about 55% of American newborn boys are circed just after birth, everyone (without exception) looks at me in horror.<br><br>
They just can't imagine why anyone would do that. Most people overe here are under the impression that circ only happens for religious reasons...they really have a hard time comprehending that this is done routinely to little boys for social reasons in the States.
 

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I don't think "social reasons" really gets it. The vast majority don't know why they are doing it, they just do it. They dutifully put their child in the line just because they think that is what they are supposed to do. I don't think most actually even really consider that they should have a reason.<br><br>
I guess I have a different type of personality in that I automatically question these things. For instance, I drive a sports car and the last 4 of 5 cars have been sports cars. This is in an area where a large portion of vehicles are SUVs. People here buy SUVs that really have no need for a vehicle like this. They are the same people who 30 years ago wouldn't have been caught dead in a station wagon. What's the difference besides the size and "Wow!" factor? Well, there's a lot of difference and if those people really thought it out, they would be in a station wagon, a sedan or coupe or even a sports car.<br><br>
I realized that my last car that would seat 4-5 people only had someone in the back seat 3 times in the 100K miles I drove it. I really had no need for a back seat! I also realized I like a car that performs. The other cars were slugs and my sports cars have been rockets. My sports cars handle like go carts and can park easily in spaces a SUV couldn't even get started into. I can't haul manure, rocks and a lot of other things in my sports car but I wouldn't want to haul manure in a $40,000.00 SUV either. Instead, I bought a trailer for $450.00 and I can haul anything in it. If I had bought a SUV, I would have been getting about 15 MPG but my sports car gets 31 MPG. I easily save enough just on gas that if I need a sedan, minivan or any other kind of vehicle, I can rent one. I've already paid for it with the savings just on gas. Then, all of the other parts and maintenance and repairs are much more expensive for the larger SUV. It just doesn't add up.<br><br>
Many of those same people who are driving SUVs wouldn't have been caught dead in a station wagon. A station wagon just doesn't have the same social panache' that a SUV does. I thought outside the box and went my own way. People who circumcise their sons do not have this same kind of analytical thinking. They just do it just because the trend setters in their neighborhood buy SUVs. They do it never considering the cost. Fortunately, you can sell your gas guzzling, hard to park, expensive to maintain SUV. There is no market for damaged penises and the son will be stuck with it for life.<br><br><br><br><br>
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<div style="font-style:italic;">People who circumcise their sons do not have this same kind of analytical thinking. They just do it just because the trend setters in their neighborhood buy SUVs. They do it never considering the cost. Fortunately, you can sell your gas guzzling, hard to park, expensive to maintain SUV. There is no market for damaged penises and the son will be stuck with it for life.<br><br>
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Not fair Frank, I love my Jeep and my sons have foreskins! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngtongue.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Stick Out Tongue"><br><br>
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<div style="font-style:italic;">Itlbokay, fifteen years ago my sister gave birth to her DS. This was in the U.K. I casualy asked her opinion on circ - so that I could jump in with info if she was in any way for it. She did not know what the word meant !!! How col is that ??</div>
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That's what I'm talking about <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngbiggrin.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="orange big grin"><br><br>
I am optimistic that one day everyone's reaction will be one similar to hers, and/or one of disbelief <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/thumb.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="thumbs up">
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">Not fair Frank, I love my Jeep and my sons have foreskins! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngtongue.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Stick Out Tongue"><br>
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I know, I know. Economy isn't everything and I'm not guilt free for being a gas hog. I have a pick-up that should have a direct pipe line to an OPEC country. :LOL But for that reason, I only drive it less than a thousand miles a year. The last time I drove it was October. It would cost about $75.00 to fill it up now. OUCH!!!! I actually spend considerably more for the insurance than for the gas because I drive it so little.<br><br>
However, something to think about . . . Just the gas for your Jeep will cost you about $6,300.00 more in 100,000 miles than for my sports car and I'll race you and beat you every time! :LOL With my savings, I'll buy you a (few pick-up truck loads) beer at the finish line when you get there!<br><br><br><br><br>
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<div style="font-style:italic;">People who circumcise their sons do not have this same kind of analytical thinking. They just do it just because the trend setters in their neighborhood buy SUVs. They do it never considering the cost. Fortunately, you can sell your gas guzzling, hard to park, expensive to maintain SUV. There is no market for damaged penises and the son will be stuck with it for life.<br><br>
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That's quite a sweeping generalization, Frank. I am one who circ'ed my first 3 sons. I was young when I had my first and I, honestly, didn't know I had a choice. When asked, I was like, "Well, of course!" I had no idea that some people didn't do it. It was extremely traumatic for me, but the doctor MUST have known what he was doing, right? (Yeah, right...)<br><br>
When my 2nd son was born, I had read a little bit about circumcision and didn't want to do it. I asked my husband and his response was, "We're DOING it!" No discussion. Well, ok, but this time, I wanted to nurse him while they did it. I didn't want him suffering alone. I had to get an x-ray after the birth and I came back upstairs and my baby was gone. Dh said they had taken him for his circumcision. I was so mad that dh didn't go with him. I was more mad that he allowed them to take him without me going along. Dh said he didn't cry at all (he stood outside the room), which helped ease my anxiety a bit, but not completely.<br><br>
When my 3rd was born, I had him at home and I did NOT want him to be circumsized...period! Dh insisted that it WOULD be done. Dh drove us to the doctor's office. They handed me the paperwork to sign...I didn't touch it. I said, "I'm NOT signing that because I don't want it done." My dh took it and signed it and then he took the baby from my arms as I was sobbing. He went with him and I sat in the waiting room for what seemed like hours listening to him scream. I sobbed the entire time and kept asking if the doctor was almost done.<br><br>
My older boys are 12,10 and 7 now and I'm sitting here crying at the memories of it all. It was horrifying and it took me 3 years before I could stop thinking about it constantly and crying every time I thought of it. I was so mad at my dh. He wouldn't even read about it.<br><br>
My boys, on the other hand, talk about how they're GLAD they were circumsized and that it's not a big deal at all. Whenever I talk about how upset I was by it, they say, "Geez, Mom, it was a long time ago and it's no big deal!" Sweethearts.<br><br>
I ended up going through a divorce because my ex was verbally, emotionally and beginning to be physically abusive.<br><br>
I remarried and now have a beautiful, intact son (5 mos. old). My dh didn't even consider circumcision because he knows how I feel about it and understands that there's no medical reason for it, so why put our baby through that?<br><br>
So, Frank, there are people who have it done who DO care and who know exactly what the permanent damage will be.<br><br>
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Yes, it is and as is the case with generalizations, they don't apply to every single case as it is with you. Also, we also learn from our experiences.<br><br>
I am sorry for what this man did to you and to your sons. I feel certain it is a good thing you got away from him. I just hope your sons are no longer subjected to his abuse. They've had enough!<br><br><br><br><br>
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<div style="font-style:italic;">However, something to think about . . . Just the gas for your Jeep will cost you about $6,300.00 more in 100,000 miles than for my sports car and I'll race you and beat you every time! :LOL With my savings, I'll buy you a (few pick-up truck loads) beer at the finish line when you get there!<br>
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I'm holding ya to that Frank baby! mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmBeer!<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/yummy.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="yummy"><br><br>
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<div style="font-style:italic;">When my 3rd was born, I had him at home and I did NOT want him to be circumsized...period! Dh insisted that it WOULD be done. Dh drove us to the doctor's office. They handed me the paperwork to sign...I didn't touch it. I said, "I'm NOT signing that because I don't want it done." My dh took it and signed it and then he took the baby from my arms as I was sobbing. He went with him and I sat in the waiting room for what seemed like hours listening to him scream. I sobbed the entire time and kept asking if the doctor was almost done.</div>
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I read this part and thought, "Why is she married to this guy!?!?!"<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"> I'm glad to see you've moved on. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> for your boys, too.
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">I'm holding ya to that Frank baby! mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmBeer!<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/yummy.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="yummy"><br><br>
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I expect to be blowing through your area next summer so we'll have to get together and down a few! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/champagne.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="champagne"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/drink.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="drink"> (Where is the beer icon?)<br><br><br><br><br>
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