We've been working on it for a year at this point (from 18 months until 30 months). He's pretty good at staying dry (if we give him regular reminders to go use the potty) but he's pooped in the toilet maybe three times total. He's clearely aware of when he needs to go. He just almost never tells us until afterwards.
I think at some point he's going to suddenly "get" that big people don't wear diapers, and that will be the turning point, so I'm just trying to stay relaxed about it for now.
