So, yesterday I told my stbx that I wanted a divorce. We have talked about it before, but this time it is really happening. I plan on calling a lawyer tomorrow to seek some advice. Here is a little background on me. I have one ds that is 8 and he is not my stbx's son. I have two other kids that we have together. My husband refuses to leave the house so I am stuck here with him until I can get legal advice. I have not worked in almost 4 years so I have no money of my own. And my stbx just informed me that he has taken all of the money out of our checking account and put it in another account where I can't get to it. So now I really don't have a penny to my name. What the hell am I supposed to do? My parents said that me and the kids could just move in with them until I get on my feet but I'm afraid to leave cause my stbx will probably accuse me of abandonment or something. I have been lurking for a long time so I know you mamas give some really good advice! How about some for me!!! Thanks!