First off, I'm so sorry for your loss!
As to how to proceed, it's really a personal choice. But, if I were in your shoes, I don't think I'd see an RE. It's expensive, time-consuming and stressful, and there doesn't seem to be any evidence of a problem at this point. Each of your pregnancies was conceived within 6 months, which is totally normal. An RE can help get people pregnant who otherwise can't, but they can't necessarily make it happen faster for a relatively healthy couple. In fact, with preliminary testing and preparation for medicated cycles, it could take longer than it would on your own.
Also, unfortunately, as we get older the risk of miscarriage increases. There's nothing that an RE can do to reverse this natural trend. A miscarriage at 6-7 weeks is typically due to a random chromosomal problem which also can't be "fixed" with medical help.
I'm not sure what an RE could do other than suggest fertility drugs, which may or may not help you get pregnant faster. Of course, if you'd feel better talking to someone and can afford it, then by all means do.
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As to how to proceed, it's really a personal choice. But, if I were in your shoes, I don't think I'd see an RE. It's expensive, time-consuming and stressful, and there doesn't seem to be any evidence of a problem at this point. Each of your pregnancies was conceived within 6 months, which is totally normal. An RE can help get people pregnant who otherwise can't, but they can't necessarily make it happen faster for a relatively healthy couple. In fact, with preliminary testing and preparation for medicated cycles, it could take longer than it would on your own.
Also, unfortunately, as we get older the risk of miscarriage increases. There's nothing that an RE can do to reverse this natural trend. A miscarriage at 6-7 weeks is typically due to a random chromosomal problem which also can't be "fixed" with medical help.
I'm not sure what an RE could do other than suggest fertility drugs, which may or may not help you get pregnant faster. Of course, if you'd feel better talking to someone and can afford it, then by all means do.
