Kinderpunsch for the children:
Hot fruit tea (I use rosehip or a mix with rosehip), mull with apple and/or grape juice, cinnamon sticks, and whole cloves; some honey if you desire, can add some orange or tangerine slices as garnish or flavor to bottom of cup before pouring hot punch over it. Never boil this, just let it come to steamy.
Christmas Goose with pears and prunes (or red current jelly if you don't like prunes):
Pull as much of the fat out of the cavity of the goose as possible, pat dry inside and out, season cavity with salt, pepper, ground mustard and whatever else you like; then stuff with quartered onions and garlic cloves, I add apples as well; these are for flavoring, not eating. In a 325 degree F oven breast side up on a rack in roasting pan, roast goose, spooning out fat periodically. Goose is done when a punctured thigh runs with pale yellow juices. Let rest for 15-20 min and garnish with poached pears with prunes, current jelly or, I use homemade cranberry sauce.
Red Cabbage:
1 head of red cabbage, 3 TB butter (or fat of choice), 1 med onion, 2-3 tart apples, 1/4 red wine vinegar or balsamic vinegar, 1 TB (or less if using a sweeter balsamic vinegar) brown sugar, 1+/- tsp. salt, a bay leaf or three, 3-5 cups of water
Caramelize diced or thinly sliced onions, add thinly sliced red cabbage (core before slicing), chunky chopped peeled apples, a good wine vinegar or balsamic vinegar is my preference, a wee bit of sugar, salt bay leaf and water. Bring to a boil, then reduce and let simmer covered, but with a wood spoon between lid and pot to allow to breath for about 2 hours, if it seems dry add a little bit of water here and there.
Spaetzle is another tradition and works wonderfully with the juices, but potato or
bread dumplings (which I really love). Instead of brotchen I use heals of left over bread (usually it's sourdough) that I've dried before storing away, and I use Black Forest ham.
Fennel for another veggie dish is wonderful as well.
I think you got the desserts on the mark along with some
pfeffernusse.