fenwickmama--I'm just
that she couldn't find the opening of your cervix. I mean, I've got a way low, tipped back cervix that *I* can't reach myself...but everybody who's had a speculum down there has been able to find it. Where do they train these people??? Good grief!!! That's how they do paps, it ain't that hard!!!
And my update--CD 23?? I'm not charting this month but I O'd way late (could tell by CM) Normally I would O around day 12 but this month, day 17 I think. I'm not taking vitex this month since we're taking time off--could that have made me O late?? I'm stumped. Normally I would be starting AF today or tomorrow but now I don't expect it until this weekend? or later? which would be the absolute longest cycle I've had since before my miscarriage. Normally 23-24 days with 10 day LP, so I guess I'm looking at 27-28 days. It will be a surprise. We DTD sometime around O but I wasn't paying attention, so I guess there is a small chance I am PG, but not bloody likely since we used the good old sperm-inhibiting lube instead.
The LLL conference was OK, & we made a ton of money! And I met some other WAHMs which was cool. The worst part was seeing women with toddlers the same age as mine who were largely pregnant, like a reminder of what I lost. But I met a woman who had 2 m/c after her son and is now 6 months PG, and finally felt able to buy some stuff for the new baby, plus she has hyperemesis poor woman, and looked sick and exhausted. It was very cool to see women BFing without shame and out in the open though. Plus my MW was there and I spent a good while talking with her about my situation, and she knows just the right things to say, and wants to know what I find out from the RE.
I also talked to another woman who is getting ready to TTC #2 with ART. She had injectibles w/donor sperm and IUI and got PG on her first try with her son, and is about to do it again (she's 39 now). She has kaiser and I was shocked to hear that they cover up to 4 IUI's & meds and all the diagnostic testing!!! Dang! Kaiser isn't an option for us, and I had them a long time ago and wasn't happy, so that totally shocked me. Anyone here have kaiser?
Korin, I hope this last IUI takes and you don't have to go to IVF, but I know you're ready to do what it takes. I hope there is a
girl: (or boy!) in your near future!
maylily, velvet, squeaker, I hope you find your perfect herbal cocktail! I am not ready to delve into acupuncture yet, but my mind could be changed once I get the bill from the RE
Polka, I'm sorry you're so discouraged
I know I'm forgetting someone...
to everyone! Maybe annakiss can stop by in a few weeks and spread some of that PG and gentle labor dust around! I admit, I'm more jealous of that wonderful birth than anything.