i'm back! well, the baby was a BIT shy, so it's really just a best guess.. but they really think GIRL!!!! so if they are right, then this is baby Athena Margaret Lauren!
i don't know anything else, as to whether she's perfectly healthy or not.. i'll have to wait until my next midwife appointment (july 9!!!!!!), unless there is a major problem, then they will call me sooner. but everything looked good to my (untrained) eyes!