How do you "teach" or otherwise keep a 16-month-old from doing something like this? It seems so dirty to me. Should I obsess about this? She and her older sister, who is almost 4, love playing in the sandbox with water, and I hate to deny them this. But yuck! Drinking the water?
I wouldn't personally allow it...just because if the sandbox is outside the whole neighborhood's worth of cats are probably using the potty in and around it. I have heard of some pretty nasty things being picked up at the sandbox.
Yeah, I'm thinking that is pretty gross. I don't know what you can do other than hover. Or maybe it would only take a couple of times of taking the water away if she starts drinking it and that would be the end of it?
you're right that I definitely am not going to watch and allow it. But our sandbox does have a cover that is always on it when it's not in use---to keep cats out....also our yard is completely fenced, no creatures can get in. (And it's on legs, too, not on the ground, and was in our house all winter long.)
I haven't filled nearly all of my pots outside yet. If I don't get them empty first, DS will pick them up (at least the small 6" ones) and drink the rainwater. I try to discourage it / empty them (into the planted bed / containers), but I know I have heard of people drinking their collected rainwater.
Beyond that, I kind of take it philosophically: like when he drinks his bathwater - it's an opportunity for his immune system to get exercised.
i would handle it by telling him "yuck, no drinking the water, it's just for pouring" or whatever. the second time he does it, tell him if he continues to drink the water you're going to have to take him out of the box. then do that if it continues.
Well, even the cleanest and well-maintained sand box gives me the absolute heebie jeebies...in fact I steer my 18 month old away from the sand boxes at playgrounds and such
: just because I think they potentially hold more bacteria than I can handle. And I'm not a germaphobe by any means.
I would also reiterate - "The water is for playing/splashing/stirring, NOT for the mouth. Yuck!" And I would probably remove my ds from the sand box if he continued to drink it. Gak. I have a hard time with the bathwater thing, too, but I can handle that. At least the bath gets scrubbed clean, and the water is only a cesspool of ds's grubby dirt and pee
. Sandboxes are potential flea sites, staph collectors, and cat potties. Blech.
Given what sandboxes often nightlife as for cats and other animals... I would say definitely something you need to find a way to stop. Lots of nasty things can be aquired through sandboxes.
I second the other posters who suggested a couple of "The water is for splashing/pouring" and if that doesn't help take him away from the sandbox.
And yeah, like Manzanita, we don't go near those things.
I'd tell them "eewwy, thats yucky, we don't drink that water". My DS actually knows what "eeewwy!!" means at this point, and laughs about it, but he doesn't drink/eat stuff that I say is eeeeewwwy!! anymore
Originally Posted by mamadelbosque
I'd tell them "eewwy, thats yucky, we don't drink that water". My DS actually knows what "eeewwy!!" means at this point, and laughs about it, but he doesn't drink/eat stuff that I say is eeeeewwwy!! anymore
I notice that my dd thinks it's funny when I say "no." And she'll do it again to get my reaction. She's at the age where if we're going for a walk, and I say, "we're going this way" she'll turn around and run in the opposite direction. And when I catch her, she giggles like crazy.
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