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I'm very annoyed w/ my mother right now. My birthday is next week. My birthday is not something I enjoy but I'm trying. My dh and my dd's are taking me out to dinner the night before and we asked my mom if she would like to join us. Now this is the woman who gets angry w/ me when I don't want to do anything for my birthday. She usually lectures me about how I'm being selfish yadda, yadda, yadda. So I called her to let her know about the plans. At first she went into this LONG thing about possibly going to a concert w/ a friend of hers. Then it turns out said concert is tonight NOT next Thursday. Then she goes on about how she doesn't know if she's working or not so she not sure and she just got comfortable and isn't getting up to check her schedule. She said she'd let me know in the morning. Well this was 2 days ago and we haven't heard anything. She knows that dh made reservations and that if she is planning on attending then he has to change them so we need to know soon. It bugs the crap out of me that she can't freaking give me a straight answer. I'm actually TRYING this year and she seems like she just wants to blow me off. UGH!! I knew I should have just not invited her. Why do I let her do this to me!!<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="irked">:
 
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