I left the father of my 2 year old daughter when she was just two months old. He was seriously verbaly abusive to me and it was very unhealthy to stay in that situation. He loves her very much, but does'nt make an effort to see her. You should ask yourself some questions like do i love him? Are you staying just for the child? If the love is not there then it is not fair to either one of you to stay in the relationship. Your child will definitly know and sense if you are unhappy. Try hard to make the relationship work if it is just petty issues though, make sure you counsel and talk it out!