So, we told our families that we are pregnant. I had no qualms about telling DH's family, they are awesome and supportive and pretty much just support our choices no matter what. My family on the other hand... my mother said she is not enthused and that I am ruining my life having kids "so" young (I am 24, 25 when this baby is born) and not having a career and staying home with our kids... they all felt the need to mention how much WORK it will be and why weren't we just happy with 2 so I could go back to work. Seriously... several problems with this. We have no plans for me to go back to work, DH being in the Army makes his work very unpredictable and we move so much and we both feel me being home is best and that is where I should be. This is our choice, but not a valid one in their opinions. Also, why do they care how much work it is?? We live across the country from them... they won't be around and it isn't like I ever just drop my kids off with them anyway. Anyone else in a position like this? How do I deal with it? I want to be able to celebrate this baby, we are happy and excited.