Thank you, Erika. I am trying not to feel down about it. We had discussed the train schedule on Monday and he knew that he had to leave right at 5 p.m. He even talked about how he would tell them that he had to make an appointment at 7 p.m. and leave if it went long! All this talk about how important it is to him, how he doesn't remember when I share information, he learns better in a class setting and he barely even looks at any information that I send him (sites, threads, etc.).
So he ended up being about 50 minutes late. The problem is that he decided to get a ride with someone, couldn't see them when it was time to go, got a ride with someone else, didn't realize that they weren't going to the train station that he needed to be at (How could that happen?! Don't you discuss that before getting into the car?), had to take a bus to get another bus.... on and on. It took him 2 hours and 50 minutes to make it when it should have taken 1 hour and 15 minutes.
I just feel so unsure with someone like that supposedly going to support my labour and delivery.