Waking up SO...???

I've woken DH up a few times. Not really anything pregnancy-related though. Sometimes because I had a really vivid dream and wanted to make sure it *was* a dream. Or if I have nightmares, I have to tell *someone* because if I don't, they will continue on until I do... I *want* to wake him up just about every night, if he's asleep and I'm not. He's not suffering enough with this pregnancy. I sometimes just want to wake him up so he can be with me, just sitting/laying down/watching tv... *something* so I'm not the only one who can't sleep.

I've lived with DH for nearly 3 years now, but I remember the very first time I got sick at night and threw up was about a year ago (if that), and I went, threw up, showered, and went to wake him up to make me feel better (and hopefully clean it up ). He wouldn't wake, and I cleaned it up and was miserable. The other night he was asleep and the sheet and mattress cover got pulled off the whole top of the bed, woke me up, and I made him stand up so I could fix it all. He slept through it standing up and doesn't remember it.
I have a sound sleeper, it would seem.
Now he works nights though, so if I want to whine when I can't sleep I just text him and he calls if he can, texts if he can't call. It happens often, not from insomnia but from heartburn.
I am definitely one of those who wants him awake with me when I'm miserable though. When I would get insomnia before, I'd lay there and glare at him for having the audacity to be able to sleep when I couldn't.

I really want to go wake him up. I want to go do something lol. Like go get breakfast and go for a walk all bundled up or something. Maybe go to the park and cuddle, watch the sun rise. I dunno. Something. I know he was up late last night doing something on the computer for work, but I'm not sure how late he was up...so I'd fell bad if he only has been asleep for a couple of hours. But I'm bored. And I want him to make me not be bored. Isn't that a good compromise for making his baby????

I'm debating really hard whether to go wake him....I might go in there and ask him if he would be mad if I made him get up...lol

I know exactly where you are coming from. Lately I have such a hard time sleeping and I seem to be in a pattern of getting up around 3:00 or 4:00 and cant get back to sleep. I dont intentionally wake up DH but I am certainly not very quiet

LOL...no...I can't see even trying to get DH up at 4 when I've been about done with my tingly hands and sore back. He's of the mindset that it's fruitless for us both to suffer.

What almost earned him a kick in the crotch however, was telling me after I told him I'd been awake since 4 this morning "You know, you really should be trying to get your rest right now." Um, duh? He doesn't understand the flawed design behind Mother Nature having us get such crap sleep right before the most grueling physical task of labor. I have to say...I'm feeling like the entire system is pretty faulty about now.

DD2 also ended up in bed last night and she's the snuggler. ACK I need my space right now, and she kept trying to kick my blankets and pillows away. I almost considered leaving her and DH there and going downstairs to sleep in HER bed.

I wake him up to take the dog out. He hates it..but it's his thing..plus it's cold, I hate cold : and he moved us here!

I wake him up to clean up his mess...he eats a snack every night, falls asleep on the couch and never cleans it up. I wake him up and make him clean it up. If not the kids will wake up early and break the dish or get into the mess, etc.