Another Pagan family with children involved with Waldorf! I find the nature based activites & overall spiritual focus, particualrly for early childhood, has been a good fit for our family. Certainly much more so than the less overt but still deeply christian focus of public schools. I'm not sure how I'll feel as we think about the elementary school curriculum, tho'. For now, my 5yr old is bringing home questions about advent & Jesus...no problem for us--we talk alot about bringing light & hope into the darkness, the birth of the "son of god" & the rebirth of the sun, and the ancient tales of the God that dies & is reborn. We talk about the holly king & the oak king. We talk about the sacred light, of the life represented by evergreens & our solstice tree. I find this time of year wonderfully easy to hold our pagan traditions hand-in-hand with the greater community's celebrations. All these beautiful "christmas" traditions that are really pagan! FOr example--(for those who don't know,) the 'Christmas' tree is a completely pagan tradition & was outlawed by the Christian church for many years; the outfit St. Nicholas wears is based on the old stories of the Holly King (note the crown of holly in the old English images).
Just a quick note to the PP who wrote about Easter...In our house we celebrate Ostara, the spring equinox. We plant bulbs, do prosperity magick, make pussywillow crowns, color eggs. The Ostara or Eostre (the spring Goddess that the word Easter was taken from) bunny brings a basket full of those very pagan images of rebirth, like eggs & bunnys. I mean really, the whole bunny thing has absolutely nothing to do with anything Christian & is a pagan spring fertility symbol (LOL). Forgive the snipe--but I love the idea of all these little christian children reveling in the sex symbol of ancient pagan times! Go Peter cottontail! (Sorry about the aside).
Regardless, there are still moments when I find myself uncomfortable with the Christian symbolism or language that Sky comes home from school with (St. Michael was really big in our house after michaelmas), but overall I find that the school's approach is more symbolic than literal, & I can work with that.
Blessings all! Great to know you're out there!