I'm so sorry
It sounds like you're still in shock.
Please do call the midwife just to check on things. However, everything you've described sounds very normal. I'm sure you know that if you're running a feaver, the bleeding becomes severe (wetting a pad every hour), or the cramps are more than you can talk through to call the midwife imediately.
In the mean time, please make sure to take good care of yourself. I noticed in your signature line that you're still BF. That's great! It may be a bit uncomfortable to BF right now, but it will help your body move thorugh this better. Also know that your body desperately needs to keep hydrated right now. Make sure you're drinking pleanty of water. You may also want to try red rasberry leaf tea. Try to eat well and take in lot's of leafy greans.
How are you feeling otherwise? I know emotionally it may be hard to sift thorugh what you're feeling now. Please know we're here to listen.

Please do call the midwife just to check on things. However, everything you've described sounds very normal. I'm sure you know that if you're running a feaver, the bleeding becomes severe (wetting a pad every hour), or the cramps are more than you can talk through to call the midwife imediately.
In the mean time, please make sure to take good care of yourself. I noticed in your signature line that you're still BF. That's great! It may be a bit uncomfortable to BF right now, but it will help your body move thorugh this better. Also know that your body desperately needs to keep hydrated right now. Make sure you're drinking pleanty of water. You may also want to try red rasberry leaf tea. Try to eat well and take in lot's of leafy greans.
How are you feeling otherwise? I know emotionally it may be hard to sift thorugh what you're feeling now. Please know we're here to listen.