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Mothering would like your opinion on the articles you enjoyed most in the January/February 2008 issue 146 of Mothering Magazine. Please vote <a href="http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=62LQPf0erxAZOFREN92QQg_3d_3d%3Cbr%20/%3E" target="_blank">here</a> for the articles you enjoyed in issue 146. Feel free to post your input about the articles as well as other things you might like to share about issue 146.<br><br>
These are the articles and features in issue 146 that you may rate:<br><br>
A Quiet Place: Trust Yourself (Peggy O'Mara's Editorial)<br>
Your Letters<br>
Bulletins<br>
Rock Me Gently<br>
Gifts of the Giveaway<br>
Is Aluminum the New Thimerosal?<br>
Herbs for the Mom-To-Be<br>
Mom's Breastaurant<br>
Premature Politics<br>
Birth Film Revolution<br>
Strokes of Genius<br><br>
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I LOVED this <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/love.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="love"> Peggy is a wonderful writer and certainly has her pulse on what the current climate in mothering.
 

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Loved, Loved, Loved:<br>
A Quiet Place: Trust Yourself (Peggy O'Mara's Editorial)<br>
Rock Me Gently<br>
Is Aluminum the New Thimerosal?<br>
Herbs for the Mom-To-Be<br>
Mom's Breastaurant<br>
Birth Film Revolution<br><br>
I found these interesting, but mostly skimmed:<br><br>
Premature Politics<br>
Strokes of Genius<br>
Your Letters<br>
Bulletins<br>
Gifts of the Giveaway
 

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While I enjoyed all of it, there was a letter in Your Letters that I enjoyed most. It was a letter commenting on not taking a scare tactic for breastfeeding advertising and how it could really hurt mothers who were unable to breastfeed. This is my feeling as well for a few reasons:<br><br>
1) The Buddha said "Hate has not yet dispelled hate. Only love dispels hate." And I feel that promoting scare tactics for those not breastfeeding is a form of hate and violence, and ultimately, ineffective.<br>
2) There has been a study, and I don't have anything to reference but my memory from high school, that most high school students start smoking when they find out what it does to their lungs. This feels like the same thing to me.<br>
3) I'm one of those "rare" women who tried everything you could possibly think of to have enough breastmilk to feed my baby, but just didn't. 2 years later, and pregnant again, I still feel this as an acute pain. I breastfed as much as possible, but had to supplement to keep my baby alive and healthy. It really hurts to be constantly reminded that my baby will more likely be obese, dumb, allergic, and sick.
 

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I was so excited when this issue of Mothering arrived in the mail and I saw a film about natural birth on the cover. I have to admit, I was extremely disappointed to find out there really wasn't much about the film in the magazine. I would have loved to have seen Peggy's interview printed.
 

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I was disappointed in the headline about aluminum in vaccines, I felt it was quite alarmist. I was also really, really disappointed that the interview with Rikki Lake was not in the magazine; I was so looking forward to it and I got to that section to find a tiny little blurb. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"> It's pretty exciting to have a celebrity championing homebirth!
 

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This was the first time ever I really disliked the whole thing. The aluminum article was just okay. The premature politics put me off, but then my kids are integrated into my life and are shielded from violence but not from ideas or from expressing their opinions on issues that affect them so I just disagreed with the whole premise, the herbs in pregnancy was so superficial and useless in my opinion (so much info missing that is widely available and also nothing new I didn't already know). And Peggy's contribution didn't inspire me either. That was a first. It was just really ho-hum for me. But, everyone has a bad day so I forgive you and look forward to the next issue being its usual wonderful inspiring addition to my life.<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/love.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="love">
 

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I liked the article on the aluminum in vaccines, but after I read it, I found myself feeling nervous about it. I'd resolved not to vaccinate my two younger children, but due to circumstances beyond my control, I was forced to vaccinate them both when they were 3 and almost-1. I wanted a delayed schedule, to space out the shots that they got, but doctors and clinicians pressured me to get them "caught up," and as a result they were getting between 4 and 7 shots (I believe at that point my daughter received 11 vaccines at once) every couple of months. Besides making them very sick (my baby ran a fever of over 102 degrees for three days), they were uncomfortable at the injection sites and I was persistantly worried about the potential side-effects.<br><br>
Eventually I have come to terms with having to vaccinate them thus, as it was a situation out of my hands. However, reading something like this scares me into remembering that, and wondering if there wasn't something, anything, I could have done to change the way they were immunized. I worried about the effects of the vaccines themselves, and now I find myself wondering about the cumulative effects of the additives, such as aluminum, that were in them, as well.<br><br>
I do think it may have been a little on the alarmist side. After all, for all of the scary facts and frightening possibilities, the article did say that not enough research had been done on this. Maybe, just maybe, that should have been made a little more obvious. We are assuming here - because there haven't been the comprehensive studies on children, and there needs to be. But until there is, it's very easy to only see the negative images these possibilities bring to mind. I had to remind myself that none of it has been proven yet, such as it was with thimerisol.<br><br>
And my kids, so far, seem to be okay. I'm glad of the knowledge, though it may have been presented a little harshly.
 

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As a long time subscriber, I was disappointed in the Dr. Sears aluminum article. While I agree aluminum is a serious concern, I didn't like the "pro-vaccine" slant in the article. In all of the "safe" suggestions, never once was NOT VACCINATING presented as an option. My renewal notice came in the mail recently - if Mothering is going to slant pro-vax I won't be renewing. I can get that in any publication.<br><br>
Also noticed the ad for his book in the back - guess that explains it.<br><br>
Also disappointed there wasn't a full interview with R. Lake. I was thrilled to see her on the cover and immediately turned to that first.
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">As a long time subscriber, I was disappointed in the Dr. Sears aluminum article. While I agree aluminum is a serious concern, I didn't like the "pro-vaccine" slant in the article. In all of the "safe" suggestions, never once was NOT VACCINATING presented as an option. My renewal notice came in the mail recently - if Mothering is going to slant pro-vax I won't be renewing. I can get that in any publication.<br><br>
Also noticed the ad for his book in the back - guess that explains it.<br><br>
Also disappointed there wasn't a full interview with R. Lake. I was thrilled to see her on the cover and immediately turned to that first.</div>
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Ditto...I thought the article was a total sell out...then I saw why<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="irked">:
 

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I found the vaccine bulletin disturbing in the sense that parents did not stand up to the authority scarecrow.<br>
People should be aware;<br><br>
a) many states, including MD, have exemptions. Any parent can take advantage of this.<br><br>
b) parents are given paperwork showing vaccinations. Of course schools lose paperwork all the time, therefore the parents in the article blaming the schools for losing the paperwork and <b>"making"</b> the parents get their children re vaccinated was frustrating read. The parents need to take responsibility.<br><br>
c) finally, there is a third possible answer to this heavy handed use of school/government authority into the lives of families - homeschooling. Take your family and morals somewhere else.<br><br>
Any of the three options above are available to parents <span style="text-decoration:underline;">IF</span> they choose to use it. Authoritative "experts", as described by Peggy's "Trust Yourself" article, are stopped when we refuse to play their games. Trust your decisions and be prepared to defend them if necessary. The decision to vaccinate or not, is a personal one. Threatening parents is a cheap shot that could have been met with firm resistance. When it comes to public schools, parents need to get a backbone!
 

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This is only the second issue of Mothering I've ever read. I like that Mothering champions so much of what I stand for in my family. Here are my thoughts:<br>
1.) First I love that we can respond this way, it feels so empowering.<br>
2.) I was also dissappointed the interview with Ricki Lake was not in the magazine.<br>
3.) I too was disappointed that not vaccinating wasn't offered as a safe/safer option in the aluminum article.<br>
4.) I like that the aluminum artcle gave me more information that I didn't know. I like being informed on the latest info about medical issues involving my children.<br>
5.) Suggestion: Maybe you could have a feature in the magazine that tells a different mom's story in each issue. It could be anything from a birth story to mothering teenagers and anyone from a celebrity to "the mom next door." I like hearing about the special, mundane, everyday heroic things other mom's have done/gone through/make happen/etc.<br>
6.) Suggestion: maybe you could highlight in the mag some of the hot topics that arrise in the forum. I have been especially touched by mothers' willingness to be so open and fragile to each other on the forum and the loving and gentle way most everyone responds to each other. You could take one post from MDC that seemed especially interesting/poignant/inspiring/hotly debated and discuss it in the mag. (Maybe this is how you choose topics already? Don't know).<br><br>
Anyway those are my thoughts.<br>
Thanks for the magazine and the forum. I look forward to the next one.
 

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The birth film revolution is the only part of the magazine I have read yet, and I was sorely disappointed. I had thought that if there was a big pic of R. Lake on the front there would be a large portion of the article devoted to her film. I was going to use that to show my "not so crunchy" friends but don't feel like a one paragraph portion of the full length article would be of any interest to them.
 

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I loved Rock me Gently. My hubby who is really geared to the norm if you will spanking is ok and all that actually looked at me and said that really sounds like it makes lot of sense (sorry for the spelling). I have read alot of stuff on anti spanking and discipline and he says they just sound like "Dont Spank otherwise your kids will never love you and they wont grow up right", which in away is right if you are talking they will be scared and that they will grow up thinking it is ok to spank and that corporal punishment is the only way to go. But he said that this breaks it down in a good way that it explains that we arent letting our kids run the show if you will and letting them run around naked and with knives flying around but we are stearing them in another direction diverting them from dangers but not yelling and hurting thier feelings as well as there backsides. I really like it. It shows me that I threw away the rocking chair to soon know i will have to get another one. thanks for the article my hubby sounds to me that he will try harder then before and will have better tools and so will i to guide us in this journey we call parenting.
 

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I loved Rock me gently and the gifts of giveaway. Both were messages of listening and learning from your children as well as having them learn from you. I love that.
 

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As always I love the mag. And this time more than ever<br>
1) Ricky Yes I too would have loved to read an interview from her<br>
2) Because I was in it!!! I am the one in the article Moms Breasturant <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"> I was so happy to see my name is a wonderful magazine!!<br>
Tera Smith<br>
Thanks again for a great magazine
 

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Loved, loved, loved Rock Me Gently. It goes right along with the parenting book I'm reading, <i>Unconditional Parenting</i> by Alfie Kohn. Everytime I get frustrated with DS for throwing something off of his high chair or hitting me in the face or opening a cabinet, I think back to the article and remember why DS does these things- he's fascinated with dropping and throwing things, he doesn't understand the difference between giving me a high five and hitting my face, he opened the cabinet because he's curious and I didn't lock it. It really shed some great light on why DS does things and how I can react in a healthy, safe, loving manner. I especially loved the bit on tantrums in the article.<br><br>
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I enjoyed the article on Mom's Breastaurant. Kudos to the writer for doing a really nice job on a cool topic.<br>
The film listing was interesting, but I would have liked to see more information on the Business of Being Born. The cover photo got me all excited and hoping for more than was delivered.
 
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