DD will be almost 4 when I have the baby. Do you keep your kids there while you birth or do you send them to stay at someone's house? My mom and MIL will probably be there to hang out so technically there will be people to care for her. Is 4 too young to be at a birth? Plus she is a fish and will probably want to be in the pool with me. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol"> If your kids were there did it stress you out?